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Asking powerful Questions.

I Love asking powerful questions, in my personal life, and in my practice with my clients.  Asking powerful questions is a wonderful tool to bring about changes in your life, to facilitate clearings, and manifesting your heart desires.  I ask questions everyday and I love living in the question, this makes me feel empowered.  Sometimes the answers come right away and other times they don’t.  Then there are times when I need to change the question around if I am not getting the clarity I am desiring.

My Beautiful House

A few years ago it was the summer of 2010 and I was in over my head, with a huge mortgage to pay, a monthly house payment of $2400.00, my beautiful house that I loved so much upside down in value by $140,000.  I had been working with the bank to modify my loan, I even  hired a lawyer and paid $3500.00  to assist me with working with the bank, and nothing worked.  I was so frustrated and at the point of not knowing what to do, I was faced with the house going into foreclosure.  While out on a walk one day, I asked myself these powerful questions, that changed everything.  If you had all the money in the world right now, what would you do?  Where would you go?  Would you buy the house, even with the value declined?  I immediately answered that question, it was right there, the right question just needed to be asked.  I would sell the house and move to Santa Fe, New Mexico.  If I had all the money in the world, what would I do?  I did not have all the money in the world,  but what if ?????  Within one month, I had the house on the market, the first week the house was shown, the new owner walked in, and it took the bank 6 months to make it all work.  The short sale was done, and I got out from underneath this heavy burden, that no longer was in alignment with where I was going.  Sometimes we think there is no way out and we can’t make the changes we desire, but there is always a way.  Asking the powerful questions,  gives you options and powerful choices that you can make. What if you had all the money in the world?  What would you do?  What if ?

Manifesting my new space in Santa Fe.

I flew to Santa Fe, with my best buds, to help me locate my new space, and come back home to tie up all the loose ends,  everything was all set to go, to move, the celebrations had been had, all the goodbyes and good lucks,  the dinners and the potlucks were celebrated, me and my peeps had all gotten used to the idea that I was moving to Santa Fe.  Two weeks before take off,  I was out on a walk again enjoying the quiet, when I heard my inner self say,  I don’t want to go….. I want to stay here….. I said what???? Are you crazy, everything is arranged all the plans, what about the embarrassment,  people are going to think you are crazy.  I want to stay…. my inner self said.  I now understand that it was that question, that got me to make these changes, and let go of my house.  Who knows Santa Fe is in my heart and maybe one day,  my heart will lead me there, but the point was asking the question to get the energy to move.  Thus assisting me to let go of my house and moving on.  I have gotten really good at honoring myself even at the risk of looking crazy to other people.  This morning I asked myself another powerful question and I wanted to share it with you.

If I had only this day to live,  How would I spend my day?  What would I do?  How different is it from how I am already living my days?

I am laughing and living in utter Joy.  I am meditating and getting into my juicy vortex of love with my creator.  I am creating and writing my blog on what I would want to say to the world.  I am on the phone having some deep amazing conversations with folks that I love and that are not with me. I am telling them how much I love and adore them, how grateful I am for our experiences, the lessons and the love we share.  Then I am heading off to have a beautiful organic, orgasmic lunch with my beloved, then taking the afternoon to go out to my favorite place in nature,  with my unconditional love dog, we are laying on the beach,  becoming one with the ocean, as I am but a drop of consciousness in the ocean and every drop in the ocean has it’s place.  When I arrive home I am enjoying a wonderful dinner with my friends and family, laughing and remembering all the joys we share.  I would share the thoughts that I love my life, I am so grateful to have been part of this cosmic play and as I am reminded of the words of a sweet friend, that said to me not so long ago….. looks like you made it.!!!!!  Think Barry Manilow !!!

What if you had all the money in the world, what would you do?  If you had only this day left to live,  how would you live your day?  Who would you call?  What would you choose?

Inspiring you to live your best life now,  live your best day now,  and live your best now moment, embracing your true magnificence.  I love you.  Muha!!!

One of my favorite songs on the lead by Teddy Pendergrass , inspired the name of my post today.  Enjoy the song and video.


Join the discussion 9 Comments

  • Kristine Nygard says:

    Great blog Goddess Kony! Thanks for the truth, inspiration, and love. Straight from my heart. K

  • Zoe says:

    Kony, your blog hit a chord with me. It reinforces a book I’m working through right now call “life is a verb” by Patti Digh. Thank you for the inspiration and validation.

    • konyd says:

      Zoe, so good to hear you, I have to check that book. It is always like magic, when we get validated that we are on the right track. I am glad you are. Keep going.

  • Liza says:

    I can hear you singing OUT LOUD in Portland!!!! I’m on the questions…awesome! xoxo

    • konyd says:

      Wake up everybody no more sleepin in bed, that song always get’s me fired up.
      Love you Liza, come back and post the answer to your questions.

  • Shelly says:

    Soooo, well written Kony! I thouroghly enjoyed! Thank you! Love you missy!

  • Jennifer says:

    Beautiful, Beautiful, Beautiful! Thanks for sharing your life so candidly… and on behalf of the lives that you touch by staying where you are -a big humongous thank you 🙂